Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Kya din the yaar...

It is often that we look at the past and imagine it to be better than it really was, our outlook at the present is worse than it really is, and that of the future is more miserable than it actually will be, and this is the reason, people find reasons to be happy.

Very simply said, i never realised that the past was perhaps so beautiful because i looked at it that, no comments on the present and future bit :) I wont deny that it is such a dominating fact that most of us look at our yesterday as better than our today :) , our school was better than our college, our college was better than our work place, our last job was better than our present job :) wierd coincident nai? n as we move on it will still be the same, we would again think of this time as better than that time we would be then living... and say .. what days... kya din the yaar.. :)

No psychological nonsense here, but pondering over why it is the way it is.. is :D something that can change the 'persperctive' perhaps..

Well, why am i pondering over this?? i happen to read something like that i rote in the first para, in a forwarded mail n i thot.. ahhhh so true! n it is almost everyday that i spend my evenings 'reminiscing' the past by sharing my so called 'old days' with my husband :) n he never misses trying to show me that the present is far more beautiful and this will again be 'reminisced' as 'old days' just like m doin it now :)