Wednesday, April 23, 2008

S.D.N.E.I.R.F

I dont know why it happens that i write when i'm reminded that i must.. it is a mere conicidence perhaps that i'm told that i havent been here since long and i happen to drop by (drop by??? rnt readers suppose to drop by n writer be always there? bllaaa) that very day..
newyas.. ya.. somehting does pull me here whn i feel i have to let out encrypted thoughts, and no i dotn shy away from that.. i know i do it tactfully (really? huh!) and so u end up reading nonsense... neways... herez more coming up..

F.R.I.E.N.D.S- They love you but they are not your lover. They care for you but they are not from your family. They are ready to share your pain but they are not in your blood relation-- They are your F.R.I.E.N.D.S!!! True friends scold like a dad, cares like a mom, teases like a sister, irritates like a brother and finally loves you more than a lover

I read this piece kahin (OK!! someone sent it to me..) i was just wondering.. how;d it be when "F.R.I.E.N.D.S" scold like a dad when you actually need to feel the care of a mom, they tease you like a sister when you actually need a patient ear to just listen, or when they irritate while you are actually looking aorund for peace? bad na?... they r doing all the mentioned things.. but what if they dont come at the right time? may be thats y they say we must let TIME and talk nurture friendship...

khairrr...
Maassalaama!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good Post...found it quite interesting...n thought provoking.

In fact made me think about the question….. what exactly is Friendship?

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more humans.

Mutual understanding & Trust.

So its basically 2 way handshaking...



Now.. lets look at your blog from the other side.



What if when a friend is willing to lend the care of the mother...but you dont recognise?? may be you thought you would get the scolding's like from dad & stayed away..



The Friend might be waiting to listern patiently to all that you seem to have facing & wondering why you are not feeling comfortable enough to go speak up ur mind in front of him/her...its possible that you thought he/she would tease you or irritate you & so kept ur mouth shut.



Sharing problems with Friends might not always get you to the solution but it will definately get you peace of mind... A Friend is after all a human being, cannot always read everything thats going on in your mind & heart... If u want your Friend to listern first have faith in him and speak to him & then see how it works...



Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship, because they do not know their role as a friend.

TaSnEeM said...

:) thanks...