Thursday, November 08, 2007

Got it sorted...

Heyy! i was js readin thru, n i chekcd that ' ihate him' post of mine :D, aaakhri gusse me thi mein naiii.. lol, i kinda laughed js now bout wat i rote obviously in a fit of anger, but gud na, i captured 'em dat moment! :D .. but i dint mention bout the talk i had with him the other day na...

he was very busy on the demo day so i cudnt talk to him coz he was always wid other ppl around, n i dint wana mess things up for him in front of others ( seee m such a gudie!! ) khair... next morning, iw as waitin for him, n surprisingly he was late.... i was still fuming bout the previous day... he walked in n i walked out for a cup of cofee... i got bak n i strait headed to his cabin, n said iw ant to talk to you, he just lukd at me, coz he had js a while ago, come to my desk to chk the status bout where we r, n i cud see dat 'jhalak' of i dunno wat about the previous day;s gud demo... so khair, he dint offer me a seat, so i sat down myself, n i gues dats when he realised .. o oo.. smthinz rong ( coz i dont ever show him the patience to sit n talk to him about anything, m always on the fly with a 1 2 or a yes no or a techie talk wid him) khair... i told him i'm not feeling good since yesterdays demo, he gave me a very suprising luk, i dint wait for him to ask y.. i just shooted out ... i dint like the way you told the client that i was late for a scheduled meeting, that too with such a lame excuse ( i was off for lunch n dint turn up even after half n hour had past the scheduled time! dats d excuse he gave!! ), it seemed to me like you potrayed me as an irresponsible person who dint turn up for a scheduled meeting... and he started offfff, he js cant stand oneeee bit of blame ( m usin d rong word, cant think of anything better dat can fit in.. ) even if its HIS FAULT!, he just kept interrupting me, n then i gave him a very stern " please let me finish before you say anything, i want to let u know that i dint like something you did for no fault of mine, nuthing personal naidu, but i dont think i can work well if this still goes on in my mind".. that was enuf for him i guess, he said ok u say first.. n i continued n told him he cud have given any reason, without putting the blame on me.. bla bla.. all my gussa was out rite on him:D, but hey i did it neatly han, put my point strait n stern with no gunjaaish of confusion, n no ill thought or hard feeling .. ( u know i kinda use this ok, may b u can call it trick;) i always say my watever and then put in smthin like, ur elder to me n much more experianced n i luk up to you for all that, but i did not like what you did yesterday [yea i used those very words:D]) ...

khair... after my part, he obviously shooted off his diplomatic stuff showing me things like cummonnnn... u dont have to take it that way, u know i go in so many meetings, and they themselves, i mean the clients Uffe and Rune ( ya, unlogon ke naama aisich rehte! ) turn up lates, sometimes they turn up after half the meeting is done.. n if its a personal reason smthin like lunch or so.. they dont mind it one bit.. infact it would show us in bad lite if we wud say the data is not ready he said... n he said ya actually., iw as the one who logged in earlier than time, so they thought we woud start off immidiately but niether of you ( me n jaw) were there so they were waiting, but its ok.. nothing like they thought about u as n irresponsible person.. u guyz r duin a gud job.. bla blaa.. thn i js said ok.. i js thought i'd share it wid you coz i dint like it.. may b if u;d be in my place u;d feel the same ( ya i said dat too :D) n he said ya thats rite may b i;d feel smthin like dat, but thats not the whole story rite, i cudnt say our data is not ready, n since i had already said that u both r on lunch i cud continue with that reason...

thne i js got up n walked out.. he also said 'well taken' not sure y he felt dat.. but.. khair.. it was sorted, n i told him i dnt like it , n i put it clear so ms ure he wudnt dare to so nehtin close to dat again :)

4 comments:

Unknown said...

hehe.. u actually did tat??? good yaa.. i can not even think of doing something like tat.. hmm.. very good.. :)

TaSnEeM said...

yea manso i did :D
oh cmon.. u wud too if u'd b in a similar situation.. but no worries, u neva wil b in one.. coz i dotn think there can be another manager like mine! :D

neways.. i called ya but u missd it.. n thn u calld me n i missd it too.. wil giv u a ring in d eve or so

Anonymous said...

janab itni khaamoshi kyon chaayi hai yahaan par.. hamesha to hulchul rahti hai .

:-)

TaSnEeM said...

wil get back soon.. :)