Etiquette talk...

Ahh.. just when i thought.. i get a day off.. n can relax wid music n empty my forwards flooded inbox, i get another report to study, with instructions that i start work 'today itself'. When i am in the middle of nothing... coz thats best i like to do :) m told to get along.. n ... well.. schedule things for a new start... hre goes... one mor trajectory coming up on my work graph.. not very sure if thats somehting to rejoice about.. but.. ok.. wateva.. !!

I just wrote this Oscar Wilde quote on my board that reads " Experiance is the name everyone gives to their mistakes" .. hehe no points for guessin who the target is :D :D

I was pissed off when a friend cooked up a dirty joke... well ok. . it wasnt dat dirty.. but i found it sick.. n cheap ! .. n dint like it one bit n so i said it on the face tht i dint like it.. n that if it were a joke it was sick.. n if it want.. then you are sick.. i couldnt help meaning it... coz u get the feeling it gave me.. when you realize the coarsity in my words !.. but does dat mean i need to learn .. well manners? ... well ok.. m open to learning anything new... anthign good... n fine if that could make me shine a little brighter... but hey!!.. y overlook the possibility of the other person being a competent learner of manners when it comes to that! coz.. matter of factly i thot that was ill mannerism too... coz it was bad.. n later was wrapped up in the name of a joke, n whn i express my disgust i need to learn manners? huh! manners to speak is it? or to wirte? or manners to shut your mouth whn you dislike somehting the other says especially when it offends you?!!
ok.. even if i am over doing it ( i dont really think so! .. but this again would mark my "atittude" hell wid it , if its at d cost of one;s dignity!) .. .. even if i assume it were unintentional, and it really was a joke... then y not take my words also in similar spirit in let go.. as smthin said wn angry?! na.. i am supposed to learn a lesson for that.. n dats bout manners.. .. so i gotto get bak after i learn them... i wonder if i would want to get bak !!
the anger isn't coz i i was asked to learn... d anger is coz i was asked to learn for what i said... agree what i said was not correct... ok lisn to this "if that was a joke it was sick, and if it wanst then you are sick" .. obviously.. the latter part is what struck right where it wasnt suppose to... n the damn ego thing also would play a salt sprinkling role... but y overlook the point htat borught that reaction??
neva mind... i thot i'd give n apology.. only for one reason.. that a little age difference.. so may b out of respect ( for being just a little older than me.. [i wudnt misbehave wid very oldies] ) i thought i'd say sorry.. ni also thot.. since therez one person on the face of this earth.. who currently happens to be naraaz wid me... it isnt really givin me a contending feeling... soooo... ummmm... may b .. i will.. but.. meri galti nahiiiiiiiiii hai!!! the reaction was obivous n i dont regret it.. !! but ok.. i shudnt hav said it may b... but y shudnt i have said it??? whn i dotn like what was told to me.. i cn say wat another person would dislike tooo haina? ..
nai? ... y not?!!!
why does one have to be good all the time?!
i dotn like it somtimes!

newyas... since i've speculated enuf.. may b i will drop in a line...

n yea CPI for Soultions.. here comes Tasneem ! :-s

wanna end a little differently aj.... i happen to come across anothe rOscar Wilde's quote.. n wow.. it seemed like he wrote it keepin me in mind :D

" I love talking about nothing. It is the only thing i know anything about "

Ciaoo!